Friday, June 5, 2015

A legacy of love

There is a spirit roaming the hallways at Anne Frank Elementary. Not the spirit of the brave Jewish teenage girl that endured years of isolation through writing, but one that inspires a whole community to go above and beyond their duties to be there for the kids.
It is the legacy that Jonnice Legum Berns, the founding principal of the school, leaves behind as she retires after 18 years in her post. "It is my time to leave. The school needs to keep growing and changing, and someone else will take it to the next level", said the Virginia native, who has worked in the Dallas school district for the past 38 years. 
This spirit was born about 50 years ago when, as a young child, Ms. Berns decided to become a teacher. "My sisters still complain about it", laughs Ms. Berns, as she explains that her goal all along has been to love kids and help them build a strong foundation.
With that mindset, the young graduate from Louisiana State University was recruited to work in South Dallas as a first grade teacher. The African American students cherished her and taught her that love sees past skin color.
Later on, she moved to Robert E. Lee Elementary, where she taught for nine years. "One of my fondest memories is the year I started with 40 kindergarteners”, she recollects. The parents had to help, and together, they built a tight community. Berns still communicates with members of that class. “There was a child that created intricate clay figures, and we knew he had an extraordinary talent for the arts”. She has seen the work that he now does as a film illustrator in LA.  
Even though Berns loved the classroom, that same spirit led her to pursue a career in school administration. Part of her education was a Fulbright scholarship that took her to England, where she taught first grade to immigrants from Pakistan and Bangladesh. “It was a great  opportunity to share the values of the American culture with the townspeople, who thought all Americans were like the characters in the soap opera ‘Dallas’”, she recollects. 
Back home, her experiences with different cultures and races served her well. She had to navigate through the subtle barriers of race and gender to become an assistant principal, a position that she held for five years.
In 1997, the district planned to open 6 new schools. Berns went to the groundbreaking ceremony of Anne Frank’s because she had a close connection with the name. Miep Gies, who hid Anne’s family in the annex, came to the ceremony. I knew I had to be there.” Soon, she was selected as a principal and chose to stay there until the end of this school year.
At the corner of Montfort and Celestial Road, that spirit has grown to a culture that respects diversity, honors work ethics, and cares for the whole community. “We take care of the teachers, so they can take care of the kids”, expressed Berns, who is still considering her options after retirement.
This coming fall, the community at the North Dallas Elementary will welcome Ms. Heather Holland, who currently works as assistant principal at L.V. Stockard middle school.

Friday, January 9, 2015

Farewell to the dreadful list

No more resolutions. Amazing!
No New Year resolutions for me in 2015. I already made some last year, and the year before. As I read about it a few days ago, the reason people don’t follow through with resolutions is that most are very hard on themselves when committing to these changes. People tend to set the bar too high and want to be perfect at reaching it. So they fail once and give up. Another tendency is to phrase them in a negative or restrictive form: stop overeating, quit smoking, watch less TV, etc. Instead of resolutions, the author suggested to nourish an attitude of gratitude. Cherish what you have and celebrate your daily accomplishments.
The first week in 2014 I pledged to post a weekly entry in one of my blogs. Just like the article mentioned, it was a lofty resolution, and very soon I got discouraged from following through. Another resolution was to improve my running time. Overall, I painfully lost almost three minutes in my average 5k runs. In hindsight, it looks like stating a goal is a very successful way for me not to accomplish it.
Here is the catch, though. Practicing gratitude solely will not get me where I want to be. There are these lingering dreams that bug me almost every evening; goals that won’t settle to become unmet expectations. In fact, these aspirations have come up every year during ‘resolution’ time. Giving up is not an option. Neither is writing them up again.

Well, for those of us who fancy celebrating a new year, here it is. Brand new —minus the ten days that went away getting ready for it—. I am immensely grateful to witness its arrival, excited to sense its possibilities, and challenged to take what it has to offer. There is not a resolution list, but there is a renewed commitment with my old goals. Today I celebrate my daily accomplishment, and rest assured that “tomorrow will worry about itself.”