Students made posters announcing their pledges to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. |
During a
school wide presentation, a representative from the Leukemia and Lymphoma
Society gave a brief explanation about cancer cells and gave away piggy banks
to collect money for a few days. Teachers would gather the money and submit it.
As a reward, the class that accumulated the most funds would be given a meal at
a restaurant. Easy enough.
In my case,
however, it became an opportunity to teach the kids a few lessons.
My brother Juan Jose and his children |
Aurora, one
of my 23 students, had a cancerous tumor in her right hand. She had surgery to
remove the mass, and she also had bone implanted between her thumb and her
index fingers. We prayed over her as a class, and she is now recovering
successfully.
Aurora, after the surgery |
—On top of
that—I said, if we collect enough money, we might eat pasta in a nice
restaurant.
The kids
went crazy. Half of them rarely go to a place that does not offer fast
food, and a few hardly ever eat out at all. They wanted to
know if they could dress up, if we would take the school bus, if their parents would
go with them… they even asked if they could order pasta Alfredo!
—We first
have to collect the money— I reminded them.
The next day
they came to school with full piggy banks: 25 dollars in quarters, 16 dollars
in pennies, nickels, and dimes, lots of boxes with 5 and 6 dollar amounts. It
was all well. We still had the weekend to collect, and some kids were promising
big amounts here and there.
After
Memorial Day weekend, the kids came back with surprising boxes: 30 dollars from
parents’ and grandparents’ donations; 45 dollars collected at dad’s restaurant;
10 dollars from a lemonade stand, 16 dollars from grandpa’s old coin jar… some
children added to their original donation and one, whose mother is a widow with
5 children to take care for, brought a few coins she had saved over the last
months.
As the
students counted and added their bills and coins, I saw their self-esteem
rising, their pride mounting, and satisfaction shining on their faces. We
discussed, again and again, the possibility of not winning. They seemed to
understand that, in any case, it was a worthwhile cause.
From the
beginning I felt compelled to donate. I told the class that I would bring my coins
too, but did not pledge a specific amount. When everything was added up, I
opened my wallet and matched the highest individual donation.
We had
collected 345 dollars! We were all aghast. I had never experienced generosity
of this kind. To make it memorable, we weighed the money, created word
problems, and practiced multiplication facts using the coins. We had learned
lots of nice lessons out of this fundraising event!
Still
humbled, I got to school early the next day. Hopefully, they would announce the
winners and all the frenzy would come to an end. However, as I opened my email
account, a possibility that had not even crossed my mind became a reality: one
of the highest donors in the class took money for the fundraising without mom’s permission. It was my turn to learn a lesson. I apologized to the mother for
not being more inquisitive about the amount, I had to talk to the whole class
about it, and we had to return a significant chunk of the money that would
probably have made us winners.
I decided to
have a private conversation with the student. Then, the whole class had a
lecture about honesty. Nobody knew who the delinquent was, nor the amount that
was to be returned. We waited patiently until an announcement was made.
In time we learned that not only did
we win the fundraiser, but we provided almost half of the school’s total
collection. We would go to the dinner after all!
I don't know what lessons these students will take with them for the rest of their lives. Maybe some will continue to be generous. Hopefully some will learn not to steal from mom, even if it is for a worthwhile cause. They all learned that teamwork is a powerful thing, even when not all of them participate (not all the students came back with piggy banks).
I don't know what lessons these students will take with them for the rest of their lives. Maybe some will continue to be generous. Hopefully some will learn not to steal from mom, even if it is for a worthwhile cause. They all learned that teamwork is a powerful thing, even when not all of them participate (not all the students came back with piggy banks).
I definitely learned that children are easily influenced —even
gullible— and that a teacher’s word can be taken to heart for a lifetime… but most importantly, that the classroom is a place for learning a lot more than academic standards.
Adding with regrouping had never been as fun as when the kids were adding the money for the fundraising. |
Wow! What a great way to end the school year. So many lessons were learned in academics, through relationships and teamwork, by inspiration, and other ways. Surely, learning about honesty, perseverance, teamwork, and accomplishments will encourage these young people as they go through their paths in life. Every young child should be so blessed with a teacher like Biviana Marin McAfee!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Eva. It was a unique opportunity for the whole class!
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